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This isn’t your regular blog post 

I couldn’t decide on how I would talk to you today

I learnt something today “ to escape from an infinite loop one must examine their mistakes and accept change” 

Have you ever been in a situation where you’re with your favorite person or someone you like and then boom, your past keeps flooding back in your head and gets you scared ? 

You screwed up once and it’s going to happen again, well it’s not gonna happen again, you’re just stuck in a loop and if you don’t accept that you screwed up before and change it because only you can change that, you’re are going to be stuck in that loop and trust me it doesn’t go away easy.

Short story - A boy really liked this girl alot but he was a constant screw up and she decided to cut him off even though she really cared about him, she couldn’t save him because he was stuck in a constant loop. He felt he has always been a "screw up", so he didn’t need anyone because he felt he would mess up over and over again, so he pushed everyone who got attached to him because he was just scared. 

A few months passed and he found himself looking for the girl in every girl he met. He realized he was toxic and he had hurt people so he found her and apologized and tried to make things right with everyone he hurt. 

She was scared to get attached to him again but she was also surprised he came to a realization.

They got talking again and she noticed he was nothing like before and ended up together, something NOBODY saw coming. 

“Nobody can really change a human being, they can only make them realize how bad they are or how bad they have been.

Change can only happen when people wanna change.”

Don’t stress too much because eventually everyone will break their loop 

They tell you to live in the moment and not worry about tomorrow because anything can happen , I find that saying wrong because I feel any saying that has an exit point can be avoided. 

 

They say

- "Live in the moment"

-"don't worry about tomorrow, anything can happen now"

What happens when "Anything" doesn't happen and you enjoy the "moment" , what next?

I say, You can live your moment and also plan , plan your future with that person you love , plan how you want your life to play out , plan everything and work towards it because you never can tell if “anything” is gonna happen or not.

Besides you get a better structure of what you want and how you want things to play out.

Don’t settle for the words they say and never abide to 

Live your life 

Don’t forget to smile cause it looks good on you