LOVING SOMEONE WITHOUT FEELING STUPID FOR DOING SO- KENZO AND CARITAS

LOVING SOMEONE WITHOUT FEELING STUPID FOR DOING SO: 

Ken: I don’t think such thing exists

‘such thing’ meaning loving someone and not look stupid for it at the end of the day.

Cari: This is not true ken 

Ken: Okay hear me out  

Ken: Do you agree with me, that in a relationship there’s always someone who is going to ‘Feel more’ or ‘Rather Love more’ ?  

i personally would rather let my significant other feel more than i do,  like c’mon i mean who doesn’t want to be loved more by someone,  than doing all the loving. 

But then when you admit you’re the one feeling/loving more in my opinion that’s where the ‘Awful chills’ of feeling stupid starts from.  

Cari: i get what you’re saying ! believe me i do but don’t you think... in your most honest opinion. 

Think it’s a privilege to be loved by someone with all they have? 

Most of the time, We intend to let our fears and insecurities get the best of us but that shouldn’t be the case when it comes to LOVE and MATTERS OF THE HEART, you claim to be IN-LOVE with someone and you barely give 30% of your affections because you’re scared of getting hurt.

Believe us when we say we get it, 

It’s scary to put yourself out there like having to give an UNFILTERED part of you to someone else in hopes they like what they see and decide to accept and love you regardless of anything you may think about yourself. 

Some might say it’s not worth the stress, Some might also say it is the best Risk you’ll ever get to take. 

We know, most people tend to allegedly fall in love or say they are in love and also,  those same people misuse a priority that is stated clearly. One may fall in love while the other is just on the edge with one foot over the fence and that's a problem, that is why before you enter a relationship, you need to be sure of what you are entering,  this is really important,  we cannot emphasize on this enough and also clearly state your objectives and what you desire out of it.

We stand to believe love do exist in different forms, 

we can’t even begin to comprehend it all,  but we do know one thing

We are Beautiful in our own unique ways , Love really do exists in people, some are clearly too scared to pour it out on someone. 

But the ones that let it all out tend to be more cheerful, easy going and less tensed about life and that is what we wish for everyone reading this. 

It’s never a stupid thing TO LOVE, TO BE LOVED and most importantly to be TRANSPARENT and VULNERABLE with your partner.  

Loving someone more than they may love you is not only a testament to your amazing spirit but a beacon of Hope that good people are out there and are ready to connect with another Amazing soul so don’t just love with a part of you, love with your entire soul !!! 

We get to only live once and get to experience TRUE LOVE once in a life time,  make it count so you can say with pride and a big smile on your face:

“ I have loved” and “I know what it means to be Loved” . 

We, 

(Ken & Cari) had lots of fun writing this piece and we hope y'all enjoy reading it, Make sure to leave a comment below we would like to hear your opinions about the topic stated above. 

Listen to this music and have a good one guys !!

Doo Wop (That Thing)by Lauryn Hill