SEVEN(7) WAYS TO LOVE YOURSELF🤍

Hey Guys, guess who is back here? Me of course.

Welcome back to this little space of mine. I have undeniably left y’all on the edge and I am deeply sorry. I had a post for new year but I got so unmotivated to put it out here, but right now, I am ready to show y’all that I am overcoming every passiveness in my life.

If you are new here, hey my name is caritas and I am a 21year old content creator and YouTube personality trying to navigate life. I have been blogging for 3yrs and I would say I love everything about writing. It’s so easy for me. So stick around here with me okay, you would love it here. Also, I have a YouTube channel, go subscribe. Thanks baby.

I would be writing 7 reasons on how to love yourself . How to Love your soul, your spirit, your dreams, your life in general.

I am super excited omg because I feel most of y’all reading this have gone through something and maybe still going through something, and I want to help through this medium. I am here to tell you that it is totally fine to feel. You are so brave, strong and you deserve love.

So lets start: 1. Be kind to yourself.
Kindness is an over pouring warm feeling in your soul. You are exceptional. You have a lot that is out there for you and you need to reach that space but you need to show your self kindness. Wake up in the morning and be happy, thank God, drink water, lay your bed, brush your teeth, do some skincare before you even touch your phone. Show yourself pamper blessings. You have a lot you are looking forward to, kindness is like a bridge to softness in your life. 


2. Protect your peace.
 Peace is guaranteed when you allow it into your life. Removing toxicity from your life is the best decision you can ever make. In 2022, I was in such a rough phase( will tell y’all later), I allowed everything toxic to overshadow my joy because I felt I was escaping my problems but let me tell you honey, you keep building up a tower filled with toxic behaviors and when you are ready to eventually let them go, it starts to get hard to destroy from the top, you might get lazy or even quit because of how long it might take and how tired you might become. Regardless it’s a good decision to start but it’s a better decision to Avoid. Do this for yourself, be at peace with yourself and you start to notice the glows in every part of your life. Don’t build up that toxic tower, even if you already started building it, stop building and start accepting the feeling called peace.

3. Learn and relearn.
 People find it hard to accept what is really good for them, let’s be real here. They always feel ‘oh maybe I wanna try this out or this’ but that’s way different from character development. Now, I am telling you to learn and relearn so that your experiences would eventually become a lesson to you. We have made a lot of mistakes in our life and we are wondering, sometimes we regret. But it’s okay to start over. It’s okay to learn. It’s okay to accept yourself. It’s okay to validate your mistakes and be better.
4. Don’t compare yourself.
 Negative Comparison! Oh my oh my, I would call that a crazy act of overthinking and overwhelming anxiety. Comparing your struggles with someone who might have gone through worse than you have. Everybody should carry their own blocks. Trust me, you are doing a good job at where you are now, keep being consistent. Don’t compare yourself to others even though it may seem as you trying to grow or maybe be better in some form but truth be told, you aren’t being real. It’s much more better to admire someone else’s beauty without questioning your own. There is something in you someone out there is looking for, open that part of you, do you, show them and yourself that ‘oh yeah I could do this tho’, time is limited, comparison steals your time, joy and money. And you know money is time, so don’t Dwell on over comparing, rather dwell on over progression in your space.
5.Listening to podcasts.
 I started listening to podcast in 2022 and I can tell you that I love love this side of me right now. I decided to listen more stuff that would make me grow in anyway and every way. Positive growth matters. I would recommend a podcast to you- ‘Unpack ń Bounce back’ once I started listening to this podcast, I learnt Alot about friendships, relationships, aloneness, Etc. I have a big thing on friendships and people I have around me so that gives to the next point…
6. Praying to God to always make you a better person.
 I would say that I am a sweet, and good friend but sometimes I study myself and know that there are certain things that I am lacking when it comes to relationships with people and I needed to work on that. I started praying to God everyday to make me a good person to people, my friends, my family. I want to start being accountable. A thing about Loving yourself is that it makes you open to several parts of your life and you become more self-aware. You need to have this zeal of praying to God to make you the best person for others and for yourself. Not toxic, not unreasonable, unreliable, but loving, accepting, assuring. Pray to God to bless your soul so that you can bless others too. You deserve to receive love and show love to others.
7. Lastly, Make money and mind the business that pays you- 
You can’t make money alone love, I hope you understand that God gives wealth. So once you start to add God into your daily lifestyle, then you are going to see the money. Once you start working smart and having faith, you are going to see the money. Make money, spoil yourself, treat yourself good, treat the people around you good too. 

A reminder that loving yourself gives you a lot of strength in your life. Pray to God for wisdom and insight. God loves you so much and he wants you to love yourself so much because you are a king/Queen. You are the only one who can pour happiness Into yourself first, others add to it. Trust me, you are doing so well and I am proud of you.

The next episode of Caritas 20s Diary, I would be writing about how to make money. So get ready.

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Love you so much. Bye