2022 INTENTIONS

Human touch, the first form of communication

The gentle caressing of the fingers

It connects us when we are happy, 

Busts you out of fear and makes you laugh

The excitement and the pleasures

Excites us in time of love, passion, and even truth

You cuddle up and think about your past life, present and future.

The more I look at you, the more you talk and how you make use of your body language,

I get to excited to understand the new person you are becoming

I am listening to you so keep going rock star.

 

Hey, it’s been a minute. I am sure you are wondering where I have been and why I have not “delivered” yet, well I guess this is the most suitable time for me to express my feelings.

My name is Caritas Emmanuella Chinenye, I am creative so to speak, a writer and I own a Youtube channel. I sincerely assume that you don’t know my name and what I actually do so here goes. I want to relate with you as possible as I can so don’t get bored okay.

The theme of this year intention will be ‘SELF-SUSTAINING PROCESSES”

My 2021 ended a mess but started pretty good. I continuously had to talk to myself, understand and unlock new parts of me every single day, sometimes I was discombobulated because I felt I was becoming a psycho but It got easy when I went down on my knees to pray. I was depressed at some point, loved a lot, achieved some and also let things fall out as it should. 

365-365, I am really grateful to God.

I am definitely not expecting much this year but a change for me. I want you to understand that life could be difficult but when you decide to do something, go ahead with it. Don’t stay at home wishing but go out working. Life has two basic letters which is B and D, B stands for birth and D stands for death. Get busy living or get busy dying. The middle letter which is C stands for choice. The choices you need and must make this 2022, your life depends on it. Small steps in the right direction can turn out to be the biggest step of your life.  You are going to experience what is called phases of “Not-breathing” and simply means obstacles may weigh you down and you will start to compare today from tomorrow and the other way round, which is not meant to be so.

Last year, I saw myself doing things that I guess was good for me but at the end of the day, it wasn’t enough. This year, I am choosing enough. The decisions I am going to make most definitely has to be enough for me. 

I need you to choose “enough”. Even with having so little, or not getting the things you want to get, this year is a year of accepting change and embracing your imperfections and claiming peace of mind because you deserve every good thing life has to offer.

This is not the year to stop praying. A lot of you might undergo this struggle of leaving God when you exactly need him the most. You abandon his words when you are in pain and sorrow and little do you know he is opening his arms so wide, waiting for you to come to him. Praying is a masterpiece to living. Forget the cross roads and follow the straight because as far as I am concerned, people will want to suck you dry just to gain and now I am telling you, before they can do that, you have sufficient grace and faith to lift you up. Always remember that God didn’t make a mistake when he removed someone from your life, or when you didn’t get that job or when things didn’t go your way, he definitely has a greater purpose for you.

You may want to find love this year. My only advice is that you should first love yourself a 100% so that you could give 100% without feeling a battery drainage. Love is a beautiful thing. Love has its seasons too. Human beings consume love like its pastries and forget to use a fork or spoon. Also, don’t forget that love aint running away, there are billions of people who are yet to show you love so take it easy on yourself.

Don’t run away from your fears. Fears are not weapons and its not a coping mechanism to not want to take risks. This year, I need you to take risks and do it with your mind *in Africans voice- with your full chest* taking risks doesn’t also make you confident, it makes you capable to go through any adversity. 

Be mindful of self-limiting thoughts. One thing I learnt is that treat people exactly the way you want to be treated. You are enough, trust your path, release all chains that hinder your growth, pride can be dangerous, be honest with yourself, choose yourself in each present moment, align with peace, progress and abundance, be intentional with your boundaries and your potential is limitless.

You may make friends this year. Friendship isn’t a do or die affair but a commitment. Be intentional about forgiving. Make friends who have the same mindset as you have and don’t also forget to choose yourself 10 times first. Normalize saying ‘no’ without needing to over-explain yourself, if someone is offended by your boundaries then that’s their problem.

Lastly, secure the money. Well I know every time is the same statement and angle, trust me I understand. Try to readjust your lifestyle and start creating the lifestyle that you wish to have. A wise person should have money in their head but not in their hearts. The money you make is the symbol of the value you create, so try not to become someone of success but rather try to become someone of value. And always remember, with or without someone by your side, you are going to achieve all the goals you have set. Save for 2023.

I always feel the urge to speak to y’all and maybe have conversations that won’t end but I don’t know most of you. However, I am super grateful for the love you have shown me for the past 3 years of being a blogger. 

Today, be thankful for what you have, you will end up having more. Every day is a chance to begin again, don’t focus on the failures of yesterday, start today with positive thought and expectations. Don’t forget to Smile Today. I wish you the best year ahead and I love you deeply,

 

HAPPY NEW YEAR